How can we support you as you grow?

Please consider this question carefully. Asking it means that you take leadership seriously, and it would be dishonest to ask if you neither have the resources nor the intentions to provide the support you’re asking about. But, even if you don’t have a formal program for new leaders, you can still support their efforts. You are their leader, after all.

Support in general is a key aspect of a leader’s job. In fact, supporting others as they work to get their jobs done is the biggest part of a leader’s job. Your supportive actions will take many forms, but they’re all just part of a broader support system for new leaders.

* Leaders provide support when they act as role models. From the superheroes of our youth to the inspiring figures of adulthood, we’ve all craved having someone to show us how to behave. This if I had a pattern I could follow it stems from our earliest way of learning. As very young children we watched the people around us, imitated their behavior, and learned about how the world worked. Leaders can support by serving as role models.

* Leaders provide support when they break barriers for their teams. Leaders aren’t leading when they solve problems for their team. But they aren’t leading either if they distance themselves from their team’s issues. Leaders are right on target when they help a team clarify the problem they’re working on, offer a wider perspective on an issue, provide feedback (when requested) on a particular solution, offer access to resources when implementation is imminent, or take a battle farther up in the organization when something falls outside of the team’s charter. Leaders provide support when they eliminate appropriate barriers.

* Leaders provide support when they listen. Sometimes people need a sounding board for their thoughts and ideas—not a surface that talks back, but a surface that reflects their own thoughts and ideas so the team can see their work from a fresh perspective. People need a surface that asks questions when clarity is needed. Good listening behavior allows a leader to do all these things. Leaders provide support when they listen.

Practice these, and add other supporting behaviors to your leading repertoire. There is probably no more rewarding work for a leader to do than to nurture new leaders. The bonus is that you’ll be a better leader for it.

Why do you do business with us?

Remember the song from Fiddler on the Roof when Tevye asks his wife of many years, “Do you love me?” It’s a wonderful moment, and you can tell couples who have been together for a long time by their behavior during that scene. They poke each other, grin, or hold hands. “Well, do you?” There’s a lesson for business in that song. Do you know why your customers buy goods and services from you? Do they love you? Asking this question will help you find out. Asking this question and analyzing the results will provide you with a foundation of information that will help you formulate your strategy. When a leader takes the time to talk to customers, both external and internal, relationships are built. When a leader goes beyond talking to a well-crafted and well-executed questioning strategy, long-term customer partnerships can happen.

If a customer joins Tevye in singing of their love for your location, hours of operation, products and services, or your innovation and design, you’ve uncovered a champion. If your customer says their loyalty isn’t to your products but to an individual in your organization, you’ve learned something different. If they confess that they do business with you grudgingly and are waiting for someone else to introduce a similar product and service so they can buy from them, you’ve uncovered a problem. No matter how your question gets answered, you now know things you didn’t know before.

Asking your customers this question and those that follow gets you immediate feedback and insight into your future. Some of the answers might make you uncomfortable; all of them will provide you and your organization opportunities to improve and grow. You will hear reasons to celebrate, reasons to make changes, and reasons to re-examine your policies and procedures. You’ll have work to do.

Are eBay Profits Still Possible

There is no doubt that the birth and growth of eBay has changed the world in many different ways.

It has allowed literally tens of thousands of people to create their own highly successful home business.

It has enabled many elderly and disabled people to bring in extra income to take care of their material needs.

It has made it possible to shop for anything at 11pm while sitting in your underwear.

Ah.. life is good!

As a reader of this newsletter no doubt your interest is in the profit making abilities of eBay.

From speaking and emailing with readers like you, I assume that you are interested in having your own profitable home-based internet business whether it is eBay or some other method of profiting from the web.

To make sure that’s correct, could you make your choice below and you’ll see the results in this live poll.

If you have been reading this newsletter for awhile, you know how I try to keep an open mind concerning making money on eBay and the internet.

eBay is NOT the only way of making money on the web. It is also NOT the only way of making money using your computer from home.

Does it seem strange that I ask the question “Are eBay Profits Still Possible?”

Some might think that since I have used eBay selling to put big profits in my pockets that I would be sounding like a chorus of angels singing how wonderful eBay is.

Well.. It’s not quite like that.

Don’t get me wrong. I’ll always appreciate the incredible opportunities that eBay has produced, but I by no means think that it some sort of utopia. (<– 25 cent word)

eBay, like all HUGELY successful and innovative businesses, is going through a cycle of growth which starts at a grass roots level and quickly expands to a profit driven machine that stomps all over the grass (and people) it started with.

Hey.. don’t take it personal, it’s just business.

Why It’s Getting Tougher

As these markets have become more crowded, it has become more difficult to make a profit in both areas.

Why?

Many reasons. These include:

* Increased competition leading to more sellers chasing less buyers which drops the price and profit of the item.

* Businesses that previously sold their excess stock to liquidators are now setting up their own eBay presence.

* Wholesalers and importers are using eBay as a major distribution channel, making it impossible for the small guy to compete.

* Increased competition from other sellers trying to source liquidated, closeout, and refurbished goods has increased product cost hence lowering profits.

Should You Throw In The Towel?

Many people get frustrated with eBay, and with good reason! They spend countless hours looking for something to sell on eBay and they cannot make consistent profits. Many give up thinking that “It is impossible to make money on eBay!”

Do you feel that way?

Well, let me tell you that it is VERY POSSIBLE to make great money on eBay. Countless tens (if not hundreds) of thousands of people are doing so each day.

But.. you need to know that the “low lying fruit” is getting harder to find.

(Low lying fruit refers to the fruitage that you can easily grab a hold of with little thinking or effort.)

The eBay market has matured and changed, and you may need to do the same.

Although you don’t need throw in the towel, you may need to change your attack plan.

Modifying Your Attack Plan.

Many think of eBay as a get rich quick business.

It isn’t!

Many think that it takes little effort to start and build a successful eBay business.

That isn’t true.

Many think that they can sell anything on eBay and make a great profit.

Sorry, that ain’t gonna happen.

If you think this way, then you need to modify your attack plan.

Wholesale / Dropship Selling on eBay, Road To Riches?

The two most popular ways that people want to sell on eBay is:

Dropshipping: Every day I get emails from people who want to know a “good dropship source” for DVDS, clothing, Video games, etc..

When I ask why, they normally respond is “‘XYZ’ is such a hot item. Everyone wants them!”

Ouch! But you neglect the fact that “Yeah.. but everyone is also selling ‘XYZ’”.

Maybe I’m all washed up on this point, but hear me out….

MikeIsm #1583

“It doesn’t matter how many people are buying if there are too many sellers.”

eBay’s BIGGEST Problem

Here is the BIGGEST problem with eBay (beside the excess fees :-)

Too Much Competition!

This Is A BIG Reason Why So Many People Cannot Make A Profit On eBay!

Too many people are trying to sell the same thing to a limited number of buyers. This naturally causes the price (and profits) to drop.

I can understand why people want to use dropship sources.

In theory…. it solves many seller problems. It requires no inventory investment, no storage required, no touching of merchandise. It truly seems like the best thing since sliced bread.

People imagine they can simply sell several different dropshipped items on eBay, collect the steady stream of money that comes in, take out their profit, pay the supplier, and be done with it.

Isn’t that wonderful thing!

The problem is that millions of other people have the same idea. This requires that you select dropship suppliers AND items that aren’t already being listed by a gazillion other people!

The Trick To Dropshipping Is..

The trick to successful dropshipping is to avoid the big boy suppliers (who are over fished), and instead find lesser known suppliers AND less commodity like items to sell.

Dropshipping is not without it’s dangers either. These include keeping an eye on BACKORDERS! (Check out the solutions in: 12 Killer Dropship SECRETS For eBay Sellers)

Please… don’t attempt to sell “common”, “general” items on eBay like DVDs, DVD players, digital cameras, laptop computers, Cell-phones, etc…, unless you have VERY deep pockets and are a sizable business.

The mistake that many people make is signing up for a dropship list supplier/service and immediately going to the largest supplier of the most common “commodity” items. (BTW, I only recommend two different dropship source companies. This one and that one)

Instead.. Look for a smaller, though reliable and trustworthy supplier that has items that are more difficult to find in a corporate retail store. For example, when you think of the item, can you think of a major chain (ie.. Walmart, Target, Bed & Bath, Home Depot, etc..) that you can easily find the item? Is the item seasonal? For example, I’ve had GREAT success selling dropshipped dehumidifiers. These aren’t too easy to find retail, and they are generally only found during a few months of the year. A dehumidifier is a totally unglamorous, “un-HOT” item.

Remember.. It only takes one person to buy your item!

The Trick To Wholesale Sourcing Is..

In wholesale sourcing, you should follow the same line of thinking. Find a non-commodity “line” of items that you can carry. Something that is not too easy to locate at a local retail store.

Become an expert on that item, and if technical give them additional information in your ad that no one else does. For example, does the item require some assembly? Why not take a quick video of yourself assembling it, burn it to CD and include it free with each purchase. Chances are none of your competition will have such a video so you’ll stand out like a superstar.

If you personally use the item, that gives you a HUMONGOUS ADVANTAGE! Explain how you use it, why you like it, how much time it saves, any special inside secrets, etc…

More Techniques Beside Sourcing..

Of course there is much more to eBay selling profits then just sourcing. You need to look at anything you can do to improve the shopper’s experience. Take off your selling hat, and put on a buying hat. Look at your auctions from the eyes of a potential buyer.

Optimize Titles

This includes making it easier to find your auction. In the introduction of this newsletter I mentioned the technique of refining your auction titles. It makes sense that the more people who can find your auction will result in more sales.

Bonuses & Free Gifts

Everyone loves a free gift. Is there something you can offer as a bonus to people who buy from you? For example, say you sell “Hot Wheels” cars. Could you put together a report that contains a list of all the Hot Wheels cars ever produced? Or the “Top Ten” websites to buy hot wheels cars from. (Note: Check if these websites have affiliate programs. If they do, be sure to include your affiliate link so you get a commission if the person purchases. You can then set up an income stream just by recommending the web site!)

(Sidepoint: Do you have an interest that others share? It could be travel, hobby, collectible, even medically oriented. Anything where people would have to spend many hours of research to find more info on. Could you put together a resource report where you give a ton of quality info and sell it for a few bucks on eBay? Don’t forget the affiliate links! )

Digital reports are great because they cost nothing to reproduce or ship, but have a high perceived value.

Testimonials

While having great eBay feedback is a powerful thing, I am amazed at how many sellers fully overlook the power of product specific feedback. If you are a buyer, what would mean more to you, to read a feedback like: “Fast shipping AAA Seller” or “I love my widget! Best Widget deal on eBay!”. If you are in the market for a widget, wouldn’t the second one just jump out and grab your wallet! :-)

Now make a list of these and put them RIGHT INSIDE YOUR AD, and you have a powerful tool! The problem is that it takes a good amount of work and knowledge of HTML to do it right. That’s why I came out with a tool called FAME (Feedback Ad Maker for Ebay) that automates the entire process. It’s worth taking a look at.

Bonded Shopping

One of the secret weapons used by leading eBay sellers is BuySafe. It is a service where an eBay seller becomes bonded. This makes it impossible for the buyer to get ripped off. I use this myself on all of my auctions. Instead of reinventing the wheel to describe it, I swiped the next few paragraphs from BuySafe’s website.

Bonded Shopping protects shoppers before and after their purchase. It is the only service that comprehensively qualifies merchants, making it easy for shoppers to know which sellers are among the best anywhere, so that they can avoid problems in the first place. And, Bonded Shopping provides shoppers with the highest level of financial protection available to online buyers — up to $25,000 on each bonded purchase.

Bonded Shopping gives Bonded Sellers™ a marketing advantage over their competition.

Bonded Sellers are able to offer buyers a surety bond — a guarantee of financial protection. Shoppers know that Bonded Shopping is safe shopping . . . so they are far more likely to buy. Bonded Sellers have exclusive access to the Bonded Shopping Network, a site where shoppers know that every transaction will be satisfying.

BuySafe is a great way to make yourself stand above the crowd. Not everyone qualifies for the service, but it’s worth checking out to see how it can help you make more sales.

Professional Logo & Template

Adding a professional quality logo and ad layout template can go a long way in helping people feel more confident about you as a professional seller.

Friendly & Interesting Ad Copy

When describing your item, do more than including a bunch of facts, figures, and bullet list of features.

Make it an interesting description to read. Describe to them how much they’ll enjoy the item. Or tell them about the benefits they’ll enjoy when they use it. Make it seem like they already have it in their hands.

For example, When I first started selling on eBay, I tried using a regular bathroom scale to weigh my packages. (Hey.. Stop laughing at me! You know you did too!) What drove me nuts about this approach was that when you placed the box on the scale, you couldn’t see the dial. So you had to stand on the scale holding the package in a position so you could read the scale. Then you had to subtract your own weight. Oh yeah.. that was a lot of fun. So, I shopped eBay for a digital scale with a remote display. The display was attached to the scale section by a coiled cord so you could put it in a better position. In the ad, I described the frustration and pain of trying to use an inaccurate bathroom scale. I then described how I had weighed hundreds of packages using this scale and I LOVED IT! It didn’t require an AC adapter so I could easily move it around. The battery lasted forever. It was very accurate and could handle packages up to 300lb. It was a great scale at a great price. When you get yours you are going to think “How did I ever get along without this?”. In the ad I also put a ton of feedback received from other people who also loved the scale. It practically sold itself and that same ad that I wrote over 3 years ago has sold 793 units (over $50,000 in sales) so far.

Another item I sold was a Turkish bathrobe. It was emerald green (not my favorite color), but it was a very high quality, very heavy bathrobe. Now I never wear pajamas, nor do I ever wear a bathrobe. So I couldn’t take the same approach since I wasn’t going to lie about loving it. What I did know was that this WAS quite luxurious and warm, so I focused on that. “Just imagine you and your loved one relaxing in front of the fireplace toasty warm wrapped up in this wonderful bathrobe.”

I even had some fun with it and highlighted how the pockets were perfect for holding a TV remote and cordless phone. The ad also included a warning to not wear it near a Jacuzzi or bathtub. “This terry cloth robe is so thick that if you fell in the water while wearing it, it will soak up so much water that you may have difficulty getting back out! Please be careful wearing this!” You couldn’t read the warning without visualizing yourself wearing the robe in this situation! (Result? Over $15,000 of bathrobes sold from that one ad)

Once you can get a person to visualize wearing, using, or owning your product, then you have just made the sale! Cha-Ching!

When someone visits your eBay ads, give them an experience not a sales pitch!

eBay Is Changing, You Must Too!

As a seller, you need to keep on your toes and adjust your methods of sourcing product and selling on eBay.

Points to remember:

* Avoid the same BIG suppliers and same “Me Too” items that others are selling.
* Watch out and ignore the distributors/wholesalers who also sell through eBay.
* Don’t sell commodity items easily found at Walmart or other retail outlets.
* To help make you stand above the competition, add value to the item you selling. Include personal usage notes, installation instructions or help.
* Do your homework when looking for product to sell.
* Use smaller less-known suppliers to lessen your chance of competition.

Other Methods Of Making Money On eBay..

Many people ONLY think of dropship and wholesale sources for eBay selling. In our next newsletter, we’re going to investigate several other ways that people are making huge money on eBay!

Stay Tuned!

Example 1 Of Benediction At Civic Meeting

Audience: civic group
Message: Bless us as we solve problem issues.
Tone: formal
Timing: 1 minute

Dear Lord, we ask Your presence and blessings on our time together tonight. We have come to express our concerns about the welfare of our community…. To learn from each other…. To grow in spirit and in character…. To find Your will for our lives and neighborhoods.

We thank You for the opportunity in this country to assemble ourselves at any time and at any place to discuss our concerns as citizens. We are mindful that many in our world do not enjoy such freedom.

Grant us the wisdom to carry out decisions within Your will. Bless us as we continue to conduct our business with dignity and sensitivity.

Handling Question Answer Periods

Next to the invitation itself, the offhanded comment, “Oh, by the way, you should allow a little time at the end for questions,” is the greatest cause for concern for many speakers. Why? Several reasons: They fear not knowing the answer to a specific question. They fear that someone will question their authority or the credibility of their information. They fear stammering and faltering with unplanned answers. They fear a hostile audience or participant. They fear losing control of the audience and the situation. They may even feel “put upon” for being placed on the spot with an unpopular answer or an unpopular subject.

And any or all of these may cause embarrassment.

Why, then, should speakers put themselves through the anxiety of anticipating these predicaments and devastating results? First of all, the audience expects time for questions—as their God-given right to force the speaker to “meet the press” so to speak, particularly on controversial points.

But in addition to audience expectations and needs, questions also benefit you, the speaker. First, questions allow you to apply the key points specifically to your audience’s situation. Audience analysis, of course, is part of your preparation, but questions give you one last opportunity to make specific application. Questions also provide feedback on how clear you were and offer a chance to correct wrong impressions. When you get an off-the-wall question, you immediately recognize that one of your key points has been perhaps misleading for or misunderstood by your listener.

Another advantage of question-answer periods is to establish further rapport with your audience. Your answers show that you care about individual needs and understanding. They show genuine goodwill in giving value to your audience. Here’s your opportunity to be spontaneous and witty. And nothing shows your depth of knowledge, credibility, and communication skills as vividly as unrehearsed fielding of unplanned questions.

Finally, questioning periods give you “leeway” in judging the appropriate timing. Five or ten minutes either added or subtracted from your speech can be corrected in the time allotted for questions—a reassuring cushion for you, particularly on a first-time speech run.

Let’s get into the mechanics, then, of handling question-answer periods effectively.

Anticipate and Prepare for Questions

Audience analysis, the first step in preparing a speech, should always include consideration of questions the group will have about your information and opposing viewpoints. Plan for these questions specifically in your question-answer period and prepare succinct responses.

Here’s an acronym we use to coach students in formulating a strong, memorable, spur-of-the-moment answer:
S = Summary (One-sentence summary statement of your answer)
E = Evidence (Key points to support your answer)
E = Example (Specific illustration that will make the key points memorable)
R = Restatement (Restatement of summary)

Question: “Do you think leasing space in this building will solve our overcrowding problem permanently?”
Answer:

(S) “No, I can’t see leasing more space here as a permanent solution.

(E) “The extra space available is not suitable for the kinds of shelving we want to install. For another thing, the extra space does not open to the outside corridor, and therefore, the traffic to the registration desk will still create the main peak-hour waiting lines. And neither will the extra leasing space accommodate the additional 200 or so visitors we plan to have during the spring.

(E) “If you’ll remember, two years ago we tried—with no success—to alter the traffic pattern by leasing more space on the bottom floor. People just would not walk to the end of the hall to take the alternate route. You remember Frank Tanner’s comments about his people not even having time to reach the coffee machine in 15 minutes, much less get a cup of coffee.

(R) “So, no, I don’t consider leasing more space in this building as a permanent solution to the overcrowding problem.”

With this format, you should find it much easier to be a SEER and to think on your feet. The idea is to have a thinking format to gather and present your ideas in a concise way for maximum impact and recall.
One last tip: You may want to avoid a particular issue in your prepared remarks on the lucky chance that the matter won’t surface in the question-answer period. But don’t count on it. Be prepared with an answer or at least an acknowledgment of any opposing viewpoint.

Encourage Questions When They are Slow to Come

Don’t assume that if the group voices no questions there are none. Audience members hold their tongues for any number of reasons: They haven’t shifted gears yet to active participation. They think that a question is stupid and that they should have understood your information the first time around. They may also think their question and your answer would be of limited interest and, therefore, hate to monopolize others’ time for their own clarification. They may feel particularly inept at wording their question. They may not want to risk others’ hostility with a controversial viewpoint or question. They may have understood your speech so thoroughly that they have no questions.

And your greatest three worries: They may not have understood your talk well enough to ask a question! They may have no interest at all in your subject! Or they may have written you off for credibility reasons.
To encourage questions, make sure your body language shows openness to the audience—upturned palms, wide-open arms, alert posture, raised eyebrows, a smile, movement toward the audience. All these gestures and movements show that you welcome their interaction.

Extend an invitation to questions with comments such as: “What questions do you have?” rather than “Do you have questions?” The least effective invitation is to mumble, “Are there questions?” as you glance up briefly, leaf through your notes again, or leave the stage.

Affirmations from you after questions (“Excellent question,” “Thank you for asking that,” “I’m glad someone brought that up because…”) also encourage other listeners to take a risk with their own questions.
If you anticipate difficulty in generating questions, you can distribute index cards at the beginning or end of the speech, asking participants to jot their questions down and pass them to the front. That way, you can weed through the cards, selecting the best ones. This procedure gives you maximum control and flexibility while still being responsive to the audience.

You can also generate questions with an opinion poll: “How many of you think that it would be feasible to raise this amount of money in six months’ time? In a year?” They raise their hands after each. “Lisa, you responded on six months. What gives you that confidence?” Such probing relaxes the group, encourages openness, and starts momentum for expressing opinions.

Pose your own question: “A question many groups frequently ask and one that may also be of interest to you is….” Or: “A question Bill Maxwell raised at our last meeting may still warrant discussion. He wanted to know if….” Or: “An issue I didn’t get into in my earlier remarks is Z—do any of you have a particular concern about how…?
Or you may want to repeat questions or comments overheard at the beginning: “I overheard someone earlier express the idea that…. How many of you agree?” This help on your part gives audiences time to consider their own questions and shows that you’re taking their questions seriously.

Maybe most important of all: When you do receive a question, be brief in your answer. If you take ten minutes to answer the first one or two, some participants will fear antagonizing less interested audience members by asking another question that may lengthen your speech another half hour.

Determine Whether to Repeat or Not Repeat the Question

If the sound is so poor in the room that questions from the audience can’t be heard, certainly you should repeat them for all to hear. You may want to repeat some questions, if not all, simply to give yourself time to think.
But to repeat a question in a small-group setting where everyone obviously heard is redundant and makes you sound like a parrot.

And you never want to repeat hostile questions because it’s difficult to do so without sounding hostile or defensive yourself. The other danger is that you reinforce the negative thought or the opposing viewpoint in your audience’s mind.

Maintain Control of the Audience

Set boundaries at the beginning of the session as to what kinds of questions you will take, the number of questions you have time for, and who will respond to each.

“I’ll ask you not to bring up the issues of X and Y for security reasons.” “We won’t let ourselves get into the Z matter because of the current litigation.” “I prefer to deal with questions only in the area of A and B rather than C, which headquarters can more appropriately deal with.” All these comments at the beginning set the stage for your control of what is to follow.

Then when someone asks an irrelevant question, you can defer the answer to a private dialogue afterward and not waste the group’s time or seem unresponsive to their needs. You will also limit the occasion for questions unrelated to your topic or expertise.

And no one says that you must answer all the questions. If you consider a question out-of-line, confidential, personal, irrelevant, or of little interest to the rest of the group, you can always deflect it, reroute it, challenge it, or simply defer answering it. “I’m afraid that’s out of my area of expertise; would someone else like to respond?” “Jack, I’m curious about why you’re asking that question; didn’t you and Mark work those issues out earlier?” “Do we really need to answer that question, or would it be more advantageous to focus on…?”

Finally, take questions in turn and don’t let a few monopolize: “I regret that we’ll not have time to finish with all the questions from those of you who are so perceptive with additional thoughts. But we do need to wrap this up. I’ll be around here for a few minutes if any of you would like to follow up one on one.”

Listen to the Question

Listening to the questions may not be as easy as it sounds. If you’re nervous, if you’re lambasting yourself about a previous error, if you’re worrying about the time, or if you’re threatened by the hostile body language of someone in the room, it’s easy to miss the point of what the questioner is asking. Poor listening may cause you to fumble a question you could have easily fielded.

Compounding the matter is the fact that the asker may give too much background or irrelevant information before getting to the real point. And the asker may not have a clear understanding of what his or her real question is!
To avoid giving an off-base answer, clarify with a probing question of your own: “Let me see if I understand your question correctly. You want to know if…?” Or: “Is your question thus-and-so? Or are you really asking if it is possible to…?”

Give your best effort to understanding the true question rather than concentrating on preparing your reply to contradict or refute the asker’s viewpoint. Finally, show that you are listening with attentive body language, such as leaning forward, head tilted in reflection, and steady eye contact.

Think Before You Answer

Even when an answer pops quickly to mind, pause before rushing ahead. With frequently asked questions, it’s tempting to give the canned answer when, with a little forethought, you can customize your answer, making it even more responsive to the asker.

To allow even more thinking time, you can use props such as removing or replacing eye glasses, taking a sip of water, striding to another spot in the room before turning to face the group, or tilting your head and rubbing your chin as if reflecting on the brilliance of the question.

You can also buy thinking time by commenting on the question itself: “That’s a tough question.” “That’s a perceptive question.” “I anticipated someone asking that and I don’t know if I’m going to have an answer that you’ll agree with or find completely satisfying, but….”

You may say honestly: “Let me think about that a moment” and then repeat the question to yourself aloud, “Ummm, what would I recommend if….” Such a pause and repetition renews the audience’s attention as they anticipate why the question required serious reflection.

You may refuse to answer at all: “I’m not at liberty to answer that now.” “That piece of the puzzle is still in the works now. May I get back to you on that later?”

Overview Your Answer Briefly, Then Elaborate

The question-answer period is not the place to redo your speech. When asked a question, respond with a headline message, then elaborate very briefly. Your audience will understand the elaboration much better within the context of your overview answer.

Here are a couple of examples of this technique: “In a word, my answer is yes. Management is aware of the problem and we’re trying to correct it. Last week, for example….” Another example of overviewing and then elaborating: “I don’t think it’s too expensive, no. It costs less than X and Y. Here’s how I think we can finance the first phase….”

Direct the Answers to the Entire Audience

Begin your answer while maintaining eye contact with the asker, and then after a few seconds glance away and sweep the entire group. Direct the remainder of your answer to everyone and make your comments generic enough for their interests also.

Remember that you do not have to satisfy every questioner completely because some will never stop their follow-up questions. Others may persist in presenting their own viewpoints even after you’ve given your answer. Keep in mind that you don’t have to answer every question fully. Just make your point briefly, break eye contact with the asker, then turn to the entire group and ask for the next question.

Use Your Answers to Reinforce Your Points

“I’m glad you brought that issue up because it will give me opportunity to elaborate on…” realigns the question with one you really want or need to answer. You can also refocus the question to make it bigger or smaller: “The larger issue that most of the industry will be concerned with is…; therefore, let me put my answer in a larger context.” Or: “Yes, that is the big-picture problem, but let me bring it a little closer to home with the more direct issue of….”

Go in either direction with the question to reinforce what you think is the essential viewpoint or message of interest.

Polish Your Techniques for Handling “Problem” Questions

Show-Off Questions

These are the questions asked merely to show the asker’s own knowledge of the subject or accomplishments. Recognize the reason behind the question, then comment only briefly and go to the next question. If this kind of questioner persists, you may have to add a comment such as the following to keep him or her from monopolizing the situation: “I’m not sure I’m understanding your question in all this. Would you please ask the specific question again.”

The asker will generally fumble into focusing on a question that you can answer briefly and use to regain control.

Off-the-Subject Questions

If the question is completely off the wall, you may simply gaze at the asker momentarily and then move on without a response at all—as if you didn’t quite understand the point.
You may ask if someone else has a similar concern. If so, answer briefly. If not, ask for permission to hold the question until the end, “if there’s time.”

Or you may comment: “Interesting idea, but how does that relate to Y?” The asker will usually mumble that it doesn’t and acquiesce or ask a more relevant question.

“That’s interesting and something worth further thought, but right now I’d like to spend our time focusing on….” will usually put the matter to rest. Or: “I hadn’t expected a question of that nature. May we discuss that later—just you and I?” The asker will usually be reinforced by the personal attention offered and you won’t lose the rest of the audience.

Limited-Interest Questions

When possible, bridge from the limited perspective to the larger issue at hand: “With reference to your specific situation, my opinion is that…, but the larger issue here seems to be….” Continue by making application to the entire audience.

Ask: “Does anyone else here have that concern?” Pause and look around, then continue: “Well, let me give you a brief answer and let’s talk about that later one on one—will that be more helpful?”
Then break eye contact and move on.

“Dumb” Questions

Don’t chance cutting someone off with what sounds like a “dumb” question but may be a very intelligent one after all. Rather, the “dumb” question may be a result of advanced, complex thinking that may not have occurred to you. The question may be quite relevant and you simply don’t understand the relevance because of limited expertise. Probe further to make sure you understand completely: “I’m afraid I’m not following the question. Would you explain further exactly how X relates to Y?”

Rambling or Long-Winded Questions

You may interrupt with, “Excuse me, but do I understand your central question to be…?” Or: “Excuse me, but I think I now have the drift of your question. My response is simply that….”

Unintelligible Questions

If you cannot understand the question because the asker has a heavy dialect or is fuzzy in his wording, pick one phrase or part of the question to deal with and frame a question that you think he or she may be asking.

Multiple Questions

In response to long, complex questions with irrelevant information thrown into the pot, you may have difficulty remembering everything that was asked along the way. When that’s the case, either answer the questions you remember, answer the last one, answer the most important one, or ask the questioner to repeat them slowly while you write them down. Then respond one by one.

You can defer some of them with: “If I understand completely, you’ve asked me four good questions. Let me answer the first two and come back to the others later if there’s time.”

Hypothetical Questions

Be careful that you don’t get trapped here. Express your disagreement with assumptions and say so when you think such a situation is highly unlikely. End with: “I prefer to concern myself with the real here-and-now in formulating policy on this issue. For the present situation, I still consider….”

Or refocus with: “James, we have so many real-life situations at hand that I’d rather stick with those concrete facts, if you don’t mind.” Or: “There are so many unknowns and variables in hypothetical questions that it would be difficult to give a meaningful answer to that concern. In the case of Z, is your interest more about…?”
Forced “Yes or No,” “A or B” Questions

If you can answer with a simple yes or no, do so. But if you prefer not to see the matter in black or white, say so: “I think we have to be careful here not to back ourselves into a corner with either answer. Either simple answer can keep us from seeing the extenuating circumstances that might alter….” Or: “I don’t think a simple yes or no would do justice to the issue.” Or: “I think we’d make a mistake to put it in either-or terms. There are so many issues that can affect….”

Finally, you can expand your options: “I think we have more than those two alternatives. Rather than A or B, a third possibility is to….”

Questions You Don’t Know the Answers to

You may defer the question to someone in the room with more expertise in that area: “I’m not sure I can adequately elaborate on that. Jeff, will you offer your expertise here?” You will win respect for your honesty and the support of the more experienced person you deferred the question to.
Never be afraid to say simply, “I don’t know. I’ll have to check on that information and get back to you.” And then do so.

Hostile Questions

If you expect hostile questions, you may request that all questioners state their names, companies, and titles before they ask questions. Some will think twice before they blurt out a hostile comment and risk associating it with their company. Anonymity is great protection.

Try to determine the reason for any hostility. By acknowledging and sympathizing with the legitimate feelings of the asker, you may defuse the hostility and help him or her receive your answer in a much less hostile manner.
The questioner’s hostility may be a reflection of his business agenda or his personality and may have little to do with you. Simply let the asker vent his emotions, and then go to the next question after a brief statement of your opinion.

Some questioners use a pseudo-courteous tone to wrap a hostile question. If so, reply just as courteously, but without the sarcasm.

You may even try a little humor or drama before answering, such as throwing your hand across your heart as if you’d been shot. “You may have hit me on that one.” Then proceed to answer as calmly as you can.
For frivolously hostile questions, you can relay the question back to the asker or to another person: “Mr. Jones, I feel uncomfortable in responding to that question. Maybe you’d just like to tell us how you would answer that question were you in my place?”

If you think the hostility is limited to one person’s viewpoint, you can let the group respond on your behalf: “Do any of the rest of you agree with that viewpoint? Does anyone else want to respond?” The silence will be a great answer. Or you may add your own in a courteous way.

Don’t feel that you have to refute the opposing view in great detail, particularly if the hostile view was not well supported itself. Simply comment: “No, I don’t think that’s the case.” No elaboration. Your answer will sound authoritative and final and will put the asker in the position of being rude and argumentative if he/she rephrases and continues.

If you can easily do so, rephrase a legitimate question minus the hostile tone: The question is: “Why are you demanding six years’ funding up front?” Repeat the question aloud: “Why do we think six years’ funding at the outset is necessary? Well, first of all….”

Above all, do not match hostility with hostility; instead, try to remain congenial in your answer. The audience will almost always side with (or at least empathize with and respect) the person who remains the calmest and most courteous.

Remember that the way you answer questions will always be remembered more clearly and for much longer than the content of your answer.

Conclude the Question-Answer Period with a Summary

Don’t let your speech limp to a close after the last question with “Well, if there are no more questions, that’s about all, folks.” Instead, firmly conclude with your prepared closing remarks. Here is where you actually use your prepared closing—that pithy quote or challenging question that will leave your audience charged and ready to act. In fact, some speakers prepare two closings: the one that ends their prepared speech and leads into the question-answer period and then one that wraps up the entire session with high impact.

If you’re lucky, you may happen to get a question that’s a great lead-in to your prepared closing. If so, use it as impetus to your conclusion and you’ll look even more eloquent and in control.

Maybe the very idea of questioning got off to a bad start when we as children were told never to question our parents’ decisions or commands. And schools sometimes reinforce the idea that questions negatively challenge the instructor’s authority. Certainly, we all remember the loudmouthed smart aleck whose every question was a challenge. Or maybe we’ve seen too many LA Law dramas where the judge instructs the witness in a booming tone: “Just answer the question.”

Don’t let those experiences keep you from making your speech all it can be. Allow questions and watch your audience’s mood, interest, and body language switch from low gear to high. Questions clarify, tailor, and reinforce your key message. To your audience, they are your statement of openness, genuineness, courtesy, and goodwill.